The Trials and Tribulations of Love

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"><U><B>home</b></U></A></div> <div>                                                   </div> <div> </div> </td> </tr><tr> <td valign="top" width=190 BGCOLOR="#CCCCFF" TEXT="#080000" background="12e11c00egdysm.gif"> <div> <B>The Trials and Tribulations of Love *Site Map*</b></div> <bR> <div> <A HREF="id21.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="The Trials And Tribulations Of Love: The"><U>1. </U></A><A HREF="id21.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="The Trials And Tribulations Of Love: The"><U><I>The Trials and Tribulations of Love: The Beginning</I></U></A></div> <bR> <div> <A HREF="id25.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="The Rebuttal to The First Article"><U>2. The Rebuttal To The Beginning</U></A></div> <bR> <div> <A HREF="id26.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="The Test of Distance in a Relationship"><U>3. The Test of Distance in a Relationship</U></A></div> <bR> <div> <A HREF="id27.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="To Risk Friendship For Love"><U>4. To Risk Friendship For Love</U></A></div> <bR> <div> <A HREF="id35.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="The Inner Most Strength"><U>5. </U></A><A HREF="id35.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="The Inner Most Strength"><U>The Inner Most Strength </U></A></div> <bR> <div> <A HREF="id36.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Good Guys versus Bad Guys"><U>6. Good Guys versus Bad Guys: Why Good Guys Get Burned</U></A></div> <bR> <div> <A HREF="id37.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Attachment: Our Fatal Flaw"><U>7. Attachment: Our Fatal Flaw</U></A></div> <bR> <div> <A HREF="id43.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Reflections in Relationships:"><U>8. Reflections in Relationships: Lessons Learned</U></A></div> <div> -------------------------------</div> <div> <A HREF="id33.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Quotes related to the Trials and Tribula"><U>Quotes related to the Trials and Tribulations of Love</U></A></div> </td> <td valign="top" height=370 BGCOLOR="#FFFFFF" TEXT="#080000"> <div> The Trials and Tribulations of Love</div> <div> by Neal "The Flyboy" M.</div> <bR> <div> <I>In today's society, both young and experienced, face many challenges, when it comes to life. However nothing is as challenging as the battles one faces with the game of love. Amanda S. and I took it upon ourselves to show people the true beauty and stuggles the game of love has to offer. This project will consist of articles, tape recorded interviews, and video-tape interviews. The main prupose of the interviews is to give us feedback on what is going on in today's society when it comes to relationships or even just dating. For me, Neal M. personally, I always wanted to do a project like this , but it wasn't until I realized that the battles I face with love are similiar to that of my female friends. </I></div> <bR> <bR> <div> Latest news on The Trials and Tribulations of Love: </div> <bR> <div> August 9th, 2004: We have a new article! Craziness, huh? It's another joint article, written by Craig R. and myself. Hope you enjoy it. You can click on this link to check it out. <A HREF="id43.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Reflections in Relationships:"><U>Reflections in Relationships: Lessons Learned</U></A></div> <bR> <div> October 30th, 2003: It's been awhile since we posted something new to this part of the website, but it's finally happened. I have a new article on the website called Attachment: Our Fatal Flaw. Go check it out. </div> <bR> <div> May 17th, 2003: Another article is up for the Trials And Tribulatiosn Of Love. My friend, Danny E., wrote the article. Besides Amanda S., this will be the first article that wasn't written by me. Good news is that we have a bunch of articles in the process of being made as well, which is definitely a good thing. My friend, Craig R. and I are doing the first joint article for The Trials and Tribulations of Love. As much as I want to give out details of the article, I'll leave it a surprise. It will be a treat to read the next couple of articles. </div> <bR> <bR> </td> </tr></table></body>